Why be mean? Why you have to be so mean? Like, when you can be happy with yourself then why being mean to others? I mean, seek your own happines if you didn't find one who can makes you happy. Just don't be mean like annoys people so that could make you happy.
Don't push people to be everything you want. Don't judge. Everyone is different and you don't have a right to change them to be what you want. Just because people didn't have what you have, didn't get what you get, didn't had what you already had—aku ngomong opo ya. Just don't blame them for it. Pereh kowe sugeh, pereh kowe luwih pinter saka si A, luwih alim saka si B, luwih ayu/ganteng saka si C, tah luwih laku saka si D. Trus kowe semena-mena karo si X, ojo toh ya. I know it's your life, they say do whatever you want, and blablablah.
Just knowing that everyone has feelings. Ketahuilah bahwa semua orang punya perasaan. Dan walaupun kamu pernah—atau sering malah—being mean to people, please coba kurang-kurangin tuh kebiasaan. Gak baik tauk bikin orang gak bahagia. Gue nggak nyuruh elo buat ngebahagiain semua orang, just don't make them unhappy is enough. Gue pribadi juga masih suka bikin orang di sekitar gue gak seneng dan malah sebel sama gue. Bentar, menurut gue sebel itu beda ya sama bikin orang gak bahagia. Gue juga lagi mencoba buat ngurang-ngurangin dan itu susah. Jadi kita sama-sama aja ngurang-ngurangin being mean to people dan try to be nice to people.
Let's spread the happiness than the hate (?)